Learn to become the shaman for your emotional upsets... When the two of us met and joined as a couple several decades ago, we made the simple vow to keep our hearts open to ourselves and to each other.  We had reached the space within our own individual lives where we were no longer willing to do a relationship in the traditional, soul deadening, and damaging way.  Separately, we had wandered through our own respective wildernesses of relationships, led by the dictates of our unconscious wounds and numbed by the addictions of our personal preferences.  We felt...